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How can love turn into so much hate?
Replies: 15 — Last Post July 4, 2009 4:34am by she rockz
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A couple in my circle of friends broke up last week. They both decided that it's for the best and that they just don't love each other anymore.

They were together for 6 years...and now they absolutely hate each other. The way they talk about each other is ridiculously mean...

I really don't get it.

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just how some relationships end, really. it wasn't meant to be.
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Because they are hurting.

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i get it...its just hard to explain

they are talking like that because their probably full of insecure regret and are at their lowest points.



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... Yeah, considering it sounds like they broke it off on good terms...

Normally the hatred it reserved for messy breakups.

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It's because they secretly want to continue having sex, but neither of them have the balls to apologize so they funnel their angst into a form of aggression which will continue to expand exponentially as their lust for one another will continue to become increasingly frustrated, which will add more to the rage.

You should pull one of those cartoon-esque stunts by sending letters out to both of them with each other's names, asking them out for a date at a fancy place you paid a reservation for.

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Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"?

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People change?
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Maybe they just werent getting what they needed from each other anymore and they could both be hurt that it didnt work.  It might not just be that they hate each other.

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It just happens that way sometimes, you can't be together, but being apart causes you to hate them because you don't always want to lose what you've lost.

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Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009
Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"?

They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either.

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Quote: from Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009
Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009
Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"?

They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either.


Idk if I'd call that love then.

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Quote: from Aimforthehead at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009
Quote: from Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009
Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009
Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"?
 

 They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either.


Idk if I'd call that love then.

Pay attenton to the first sentence.

"They stopped loving each other."

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Quote: from Gaelle at 2:41 pm on July 3, 2009
Quote: from Aimforthehead at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009
Quote: from Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009
Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009
Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"?

  They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either.

 
 Idk if I'd call that love then.

Pay attenton to the first sentence.

"They stopped loving each other."


I meant I wouldn't call what they had before that love.
Love doesn't just -stop-, if it does, then love wouldn't really be great at all...what they had was pathetic either way.

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Quote: from Aimforthehead at 4:14 pm on July 3, 2009
Quote: from Gaelle at 2:41 pm on July 3, 2009
Quote: from Aimforthehead at 2:35 pm on July 3, 2009
Quote: from Gaelle at 2:14 pm on July 3, 2009
Quote: from Aimforthehead at 11:00 am on July 3, 2009
Wow that's not a very good reason. Was it just "Yeah, maybe we should break up, no reason or anything just kind of time"?
   

  They stopped loving each other, they didn't see a reason for staying together anymore. Nothing really bothered them, but nothing made them happy either.


  Idk if I'd call that love then.
 

 Pay attention to the first sentence.  

 "They stopped loving each other."


I meant I wouldn't call what they had before that love.  
Love doesn't just -stop-, if it does, then love wouldn't really be great at all...what they had was pathetic either way.

I think we've had a fight about this before, so I'm just going to take your opinion and say that I disagree.

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