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Body image issues, sad! :(
Replies: 20Last Post Aug. 7 8:57pm by lilac
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I just feel awful about my body. I look at girls on TV, movies, magazines, Playboy, the Internet... go-go dancers at clubs, strippers, or even girls in the street and I just can't compete.

It's so obvious that models and actresses and playmates and strippers have soooo much better bodies, then how am I supposed to feel better? Guys drool and drool over them, saying they're so hot and such, even guys in relationships (when not around their gfs) say just how fucking hot some chick is, how perfect her huge tits are, how they'd like to fuck them... some even say how they wish their gfs looked like that. Some don't and they're not jerks, but still claim that some TV chick is hotter than their girl.

What can I do to ignore all this shit? How can I love this average, hairy, chubby, small breasted, cellulite ridden body of mine? I feel downright gross!  


4:20 pm on July 22, 2008
Baron Samedi


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Date a blind man.

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skittybaby

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You can't ignore it, it's everywhere.
But its been shown that Guys prefer curvy girls

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hateitandloveit


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Guys might say that, but so? who cares? when we say that we are just commenting on their appearance, nothing else. if you gave me some hot tv girl and a less pretty girl that I knew and I knew had a good personality and stuff, obviously I'm goign to pick the latter.

Don't worry about it, just be  healthy and you'll be fine.

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One Two Step


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You can accept yourself.

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Who are you to judge?

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Frubeling


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That is not true beauty, they are hot yes, but they aren't beautiful.

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musicfan3


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You do know all those girls had work done? Be happy your natural.

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katzkitten


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hey were normal people,
we cant afford gym trainers and £100 beauty treatments like them :)
dont worry, least your not plastic ayee

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foxypunk


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eh I know the feeling I hate my body and hate pretty girls just cause I'm so jelose of them, though my boyfriend tells me all the time about the girls he thinks are hot or what parts are, I dunno how to ignor that stuff I'm in the same kinda boat

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Paisapunkprincess


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well, you just have to see that we are all diferent people, accept yourself for who you are, because in the end someone is gonna love you for you.

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playboyfreak456


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I use to feel that way too. And honestly, it gets a lot better once you get older. You start to realize all the beauty you really do have instead of focusing on all the flaws. And the truth is, yeah a lot of guys do think the girls in playboy are hot, but they will also say they would never date them. All they want them for is sex because they already know they will give it up easily.

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Aixi


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You can always find someone, always.

Don't shoot high though.  Unless of course you want to work extra hard and lose weight.. and shave.

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( Anonymous )

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Quote: from hateitandloveit at 4:22 pm on July 22, 2008

Guys might say that, but so? who cares? when we say that we are just commenting on their appearance, nothing else. if you gave me some hot tv girl and a less pretty girl that I knew and I knew had a good personality and stuff, obviously I'm goign to pick the latter.  

Don't worry about it, just be healthy and you'll be fine.


Yeah, sure, you can love a normal looking girl... but when it comes down to having sex obviously attraction plays a huge part and it kinda sucks to know that guys think some other chick is hotter and want to fuck them.


4:25 pm on July 22, 2008
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Girls with hot bodies and huge breasts aren't truly beautiful. Yeah, they may look bangable to some guys, but they aren't BEAUTIFUL. Remember, almost everything you see in magazines or pictures, it's all touched up. They aren't THAT flawless. They just go and edit every pimple, every wrinkle, every tiny flaw in sight. You have to learn to accept yourself the way you are. You ARE beautiful, honest. You just need to look deep down and realize that.

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pinch


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I know how you feel, but when you think hard about it, do you want to be referred to as "cute" or "hot"?

There's some saying that a guy who loves you for you will think you're cute, and any loser can call you hot.

I've got a good body I think, I'm slim and quite petite in height but I'm no model whatsoever. It's confidence that will win you love.

good luck xx

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