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So I'm on the pill, but I've always made my boyfriend wear a condom when we have sex anyway because I don't trust the pill at all... it just makes me nervous because getting pregnant would pretty much ruin my whole life right now...
Anyway, my boyfriend strongly dislikes condoms, because he didn't with his last girlfriend because she was on the shot and I guess wasn't as paranoid as me, and he says he can't feel as much with one on. Now, I know he can still feel a lot blah blah but I'd like to try having sex without one if it really is safe.
I got a free sample of this spermicidal film stuff, and I'm thinking if I'm on the pill and use that and make him pull out I'll be safe? What are your thoughts?? Am I too paranoid? A FEW EDITS: 1. LAY OFF MY BOYFRIEND, PEOPLE! As I've already said, he has never and would never dream of asking me to not use a condom. He's the sweetest guy in the world. I'M the one bringing it up, because he is the sweetest guy in the world and as such deserves perfect sex  2. Obviously I am not being pressured in any way. To those of you telling me no to if I don't want to, you obviously don't understand what I'm asking.
I'm asking if what I WANT to do is safe! 3. Neither of us has any STDs.
So that doesn't need to come into play at all. Post edited at 11:56 am on July 21, 2008 by Anonymous
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11:09 am on July 21, 2008
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rawrr
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if you dont want to, then dont do it. simple as that.
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niccole1
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paranoid yeah you are
but i still think u should use a condom
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hadouken
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dont do it
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Miss Spontaneous
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na..as long as your comfortable with it its fine. Your bf just has to understand that
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just me101
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I know a girl who was on the pill and she ended up pregnant...you should be smart and do whatever you think is best...
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stargazer1
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I wouldn't do it cause the pills are all that reliable. Hope this helps.
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ohemgeeitsme424
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it seems like ur boyfriend is trying to be too controlling. they have special condoms for the exact purpose that it helps guys feel more... extra thin ones.. sensitive ones... warming ones... talk to him and tell him this.. im sure he prob already knows. but its nice to put it out there.
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2kewl4u2know
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Not too paranoid. It's your body that would be carrying the child, do what makes you feel comfortable enough. Although the pill in and of itself is enough protection most of the time if you use it right. But what you suggested I'm sure would work just as well as the condom.
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lilolme
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if u dont want to dont... but u should try it
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Rtheory
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Use a female-condom?
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yea you are paranoid but
its better to be safe then sorry
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mo money17
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No, you're responsible.
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it seems like ur boyfriend is trying to be too controlling. they have special condoms for the exact purpose that it helps guys feel more... extra thin ones.. sensitive ones... warming ones... talk to him and tell him this.. im sure he prob already knows. but its nice to put it out there. 
