It seems as though maybe you didn't want to hurt her feelings.  And thats fine.  But sooner or later, you have to tell her.  And tomorrow will be a good idea.  In fact, sooner would be better.  Do you have her number?  Call her.  Or maybe text her.

I think she'll understand later on.  Of course, shes going to be hurt at first.  She tried at love.  But right now it just wont work.  Dating is try and check kind of game.  Some will work out.  Some wont.

And because of the fact it was yesterday, I don't think shes totally "in love" with you.  It might be infatuation.  You might be something she just likes alot.  There a difference between that and love.

So just go ahead and talk to her either today or tomorrow.  How?  Talk to her completely alone.  No one around.  And say that maybe you two should give it more time.  You don't have to not talk to her.  You can simply take things a bit slower.  We all make mistakes.

Best wishes; Contact me anytime.

~jamesish~

Posted at 8:50 am on Sep. 7, 2008

Seems like you've got yourself into a pretty messy situation eh? I think for future reference don't say yes unless you want it!

When you see her tomorrow I think that you need to be upfront and tell her out straight that you just want to be friends, the soon you get this out of the way, the more she'll respect you. Its unfair for you to carry on in this relationship if you don't like her, so the sooner you get it over with the better.

You might be thinking 'oh I don't wanna hurt her feelings though', but do you really think you staying in a relationship you don't want is going to make her feel good about herself? Of course it isn't! Its best for both of you if you get this out of the way and dusted under the carpet.

Of course she might be angry with you, but you have to look at it from her perspective, after all you did say yes when you didn't really like her. I'm sure both of you will work things out in the end, but you really need to get this sorted, tomorrow!

Good luck, PM to talk some more.

~ Sophie

Posted at 8:07 am on Sep. 7, 2008