Today, our class of 40 or so students got to choose our small groups (the groups we'd be teaching in) of 4 people. We also had to sign up for a small group of 3 people for different days. 2 of my friends turned to me and asked if I wanted to be in their group. I said sure, and one of them went to sign us up.

When we were in line for snacks later, our teacher reminded us to make sure we'd signed up for BOTH groups - the 3 person as well as the 4 person. I turned to my friend to double check that she had indeed signed us up for both, and she goes, "Oh. Well I signed us" indicates herself and another friend "up, but I don't think you're on there yet." I come to find out that they only meant for me to be in their group of 3, and that they had signed up for the group of 4 with 2 other people without letting me know.

So I go over to the sign up, and the only group left is with 3 guys. So I had to take that one.

The thing that makes me so incredibly mad is that my friends didn't seem like they cared at all. No one asked me, "hey, so did you find a group?" or anything of the sort. I mean, I know that if our positions had been reversed, I would feel bad. I'd try to make sure they got into another group. They didn't care either way. And when they asked me to be in their group of 3, it was as a last resort.

They were like, "fine you can be in our group, I guess". These are what I thought were my FRIENDS.

But looking back, they've always treated me like this, and I'm so fucking sick of it. I am. I would have called them on it today, but it wasn't the time nor the place, with 40 people around and at a peer leadership meeting nonetheless.

So how do I "call them on it"?ust next time I see them drop a casual line like, "hey, I didn't appreciate how you guys...." Would that be weird, if I do it on Monday when the event happened today? text or something maybe?ow do I word it when I have the conversation with them?ny help on this would be greatly appreciated.

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